On Wednesdays, I share practical ways that I'm seeking to refresh my life. A series largely inspired by the REFRESH book by Hayley Morgan and Jessi Connolly.
So far I've shared about the book itself, 5 practical tips to a joy filled life, how I now wear blush,
oh, and lipstick too (p.s. more to come on lipstick in the next few weeks), and 6 intentional ways to refresh your life.
Today I want to expand on a concept that Hayley referenced in the book: the idea of a second day.
So far I've shared about the book itself, 5 practical tips to a joy filled life, how I now wear blush,
oh, and lipstick too (p.s. more to come on lipstick in the next few weeks), and 6 intentional ways to refresh your life.
Today I want to expand on a concept that Hayley referenced in the book: the idea of a second day.
I had a girl I worked with who was wonderful and tough.
She was young, elementary school aged, had gone through a tough life,
was emotional, and was desperate for attention. I don't say
desperate in a way that means anything poorly against her by the way. Her life had caused her to be absolutely
needing somebody to love her, to listen, to let her be a kid again.
I can't remember if I came up with this concept on my own, or if a co-worker shared the idea with me. But this sweet girl and I implemented the idea of a second day.
When she came in, and started to lose it, whether at me, a co-worker, another kid, or anybody, I'd look at her and ask if she wanted to start her second day.
Most days, she would.
She'd look at me, get a face of resolve, take a few really big deep breathes, and start over. All was forgiven, all was past - it was a new day.
More so than just a concept for kids, a second day is imperative to my own life.
To me, a second day is grace in action. It's making an active choice to accept that I'm not okay, but that I can choose to react differently. I can choose to show grace, to forgive, to quiet, to begin again.
I really appreciated this concept when I worked with kids, I appreciate it in many of my own days, and I'd love to hear how others use it in action.
So. Do you ever utilize a second day? Do you have a different term for it?